Fleurs etiquette

Going to the florist is a lovely moment. So civilized. You are greeted by the florist who helps you choose the right flowers for the right occasion. There is a well-defined gift etiquette in France.

For example, never offer flowers to someone who lives in a home with a garden, it is better to offer a bottle of wine or a little objet d'art. Tonight, we are invited for an aperitif--not dinner. Therefore, I chose a subtile bouquet of freesias with a little greenery added. If we had been invited for dinner, I would have gone all out and offered a nice bouquet with its own vase. Never offer a cactus! Never. Plants are a welcome gift, but it is better if you know the person well enough to know their tastes.

Once you have chosen your flowers or objet d'art, there is a whole wrapping ceremony that comes which reminds me a bit of the moment in the film Love, Actually when Mr. Bean is wrapping up the necklace for the mistress.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojqycHsURkk

The florist wraps the flowers in pretty paper, then puts another layer of paper partially around it, then wraps it in clear wrap, folds it and places a smart sticker on the whole affair. Then she will ceremoniously hold the flowers in her arms, open the door for you and wish you a lovely evening. Such an enjoyable moment!!

Voila!

Gros bisous et a demain!

Love, Charley